Wednesday, June 16, 2010

I THINK YOUR FAT ASS IS SEXY!

I THINK YOUR FAT ASS IS SEXY! Yes, this is what I was told when I went out on Saturday night no the guy was not joking, we actually exchanged numbers prior to this comment. We were talking and hit it off really well and ended up bar hopping together. When He smacked my ass and told me he thought my FAT ASS was sexy! What the hell. Does he really think that is a remark that I am going to think him for?? I do not think so. Other then that one comment he was constantly telling me how sexy I was and hugging on me. It made me feel special but that one comment has made me wonder if I really should keep on communicating with this man. Or if I should just talk to him about that comment and let him know I do not find it flattering. Any thoughts on this???

So, my eating habits have been horrible. I seem to do this I get into a competition like VBL which I think will be beneficial and its like I think while I am in it OOO I am not going to do well so I might as well just give up now. I need to get that out of my mind. No matter where I rank on the standings it is still better then where I would be if I had given up. SO my weight loss for the week is 0 and my eating is back on track today so I will just take it one day at a time and get it figured out.

3 comments:

  1. I say talk to the guy. He might be glad that there is something to hold on to, and not a rail or a girl. I fyou like him- everything but this comment- why not mention it and se ewhat his reasons were for that. If he finds out you are trying to get rid of some weight, he could be your biggest cheerleader. If he prefers large women- then you may need to rethink him too. :)

    I'd take it as this: at least he wasn't hateful & rude about it... he probably thought he was complimenting you.

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  2. Some guys are just dopes when it comes to words. He could have chosen his statement a little better, but if I liked a guy and he smacked my ass and said that I'd be like, uhhhhh, ok then AWESOME! Fat ass isn't something anyone likes to hear, but I think that's about as complementary as it gets when it comes to the word fat and ass in the same sentence. Lots of dudes like bigger girls, I say ride it out sister.

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  3. wow! i agree with katy some guys just have no clue. all depends on the vibes and how you felt about the overall experience.

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